February 27, 2014
Getting the knowledge is only the start of your journey, you need to walk it, too. One of the best places to start is making sure you’re not making easy blunders. Don’t send her anything that might bore her to tears, that’s the first. Make it seem like you’re different from all the other guys texting her all the time.
And if she’s not texting you, don’t flood her inbox with your mindless lame texts. Use text messages to create intrigue and suspense. Remember, too many too soon will only make her blind to your text messages.
Don’t talk to her too long over text, there’s a better place for that, you know. Getting the urge to know more about her is not excuse to do just that. Also, don’t be too eager when you reply to her. If it’s the first text, you can send her anything any time you have the chance to do it.
You don’t want to wait too long when it’s the first text, doing so will only make your chances worse.
Most girls prefer it that way so don’t wait because you don’t have to. Do it while she still remembers who you are and how she met you. Don’t make it hard for her to remember you, remember that when you get her number. Alright?
With magnetic messaging, you’ll also avoid the awkward message asking who you are. Her attention is already divided when you know she goes out more than twice a week.
If you don’t text her when you have the chance, she’ll forget you like you never existed. She’ll only drop any sort of interest she had when you met her if you wait. When you’re not the only one texting her, you need to stand out from the crowd. Don’t forget your charm when you text her, though, if you want a response from her.
Remind her of the good times, the fun times she had when meeting you. That always seem to work great. Just think of it as continuing where you left off when you met her for the first time that night. It is that simple. Start with something you remember about her or something you talked about.
Don’t jump the gun just because you think it’s good, think again. It never hurts. Ponder within yourself whether what you’re sending her is good enough to get a reply. If you want to be sure, if it makes you laugh, she’ll probably laugh at it, too. Don’t let your interest in her overflow, you won’t be able to think clearly. Checking your phone all the time is a symptom of that. Beware. Your mistakes will pile up and you’ll only lose her the moment that happens.
The dangers of this is clear as day, neediness and desperation gets a power up. You can even be exhibiting jealous behavior and that will kill any attraction she has for you. This will make her flake on you if you’re not careful.
If you’re not dating her and she’s not your girlfriend, you have absolutely no reason to be jealous. If she doesn’t reply that often and makes you feel jealous, ignore it. Show her that you’re different from all the other guy she knows. You know she’s not the only girl you have your eyes on, so show it and act like it. And beware of sending anything too needy or anything needy at all.
It can kill attraction instantly than any other way. And that includes not sending your reply too soon every time you receive a message from her. It’s not the end if you can’t immediately reply to her. Don’t send her more text than she sends you. Match her on that count and don’t be any more than or only less. Don’t overuse emoticons and flatter her all the time.
Avoid anything that can make you regret ever sending her that text. Don’t even attempt to send her anything that will get you some kind of validation. Don’t talk about anything not worth talking about unless you just want to be friends with her. Change subjects when you spot them and avoid the trap. Tease her and create some attraction. If you can, text her as if you’re having the time of your life. Just show her that you are not like any other chump out there.
Give her the fun and enjoyment she needs. This should make her keep thinking about you. If you can make her wonder if she should be with you having fun, do it. If you can ignore some of her question, do it.
You don’t have to answer everything. Add personality to your text, make it short if you can and vague. Don’t repeat the mistakes all the guys make with boring questions. You will begin to annoy her and you’ll only get ignored. Remember, your personality is what’s important when you’re communicating with her. Get her laughing, make her smile, make her look forward to receiving texts from you. Even on the first text, a good joke works all the time, even lame ones.
But don’t be too predictable with everything you do. Keep her guessing, too. So when you reply to her, don’t send it faster than a lightning bolt from Zeus. This can make her think about you without you doing anything special. It also gives her some thrill of waiting for you next message. So be sure to remember this important point when you’re texting girls.
But be sure you’re eliciting some good emotions in her. Texting a girl is one of the more important things to learn if you want to keep in touch with her. If you’re not sure of what to send to a girl, you should change that now.